Support remote IO in KvikIO and cudf

[madsbk]

Currently, cudf wheels cannot use the new remote IO feature because of symbols conflicts in libcurl. This is because when buiidling the wheels, kvikio instruct libcurl to statically link to libcurl.a, which exposes OpenSSL symbols that conflicts with the ones in CPython. Python segfaults when importing cudf.
The solution is to make KvikIO a shared library (instead of header-only) and link to libcurl.a statically while excluding its symbols using --exclude-libs.

Tasks

• Build libkvikio.so: Build KvikIO as a shared library #527
  • Move all use of libcurl to .cpp to avoid symbol conflict.
  • Fixes Adjust wheel build tags appropriately for new built component #512
• Update cudf to use libkvikio.so: KvikIO shared library cudf#17239
• Let cudf use the new remote IO feature: AWS S3 IO through KvikIO cudf#16499

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