20221107T161412Z: chore(wave0): update remote resource controller to 2.0.6

Update remote resource controller to pick up functionality to change the
default reconcile behavior on remote resources. Will read the key
RR_RECONCILE_BY_DEFAULT from razeedeploy-overrides. The default is
`true`

* New Update Mode `AdditiveMergePatch` - will not remove fields from the
  live resource when they are removed from the definition
* Request options can read `headersFrom` (configMapRef, secretMapRef)
* Support `git` as a remote resource
* update running node version to lts/16
* environment variable `RR_RECONCILE_BY_DEFAULT` will set the reconcile behavior

BREAKING CHANGE: Removes support for old kapitan naming in annotations