fix(shwap/bitswap): tune bitswap params #9651

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go-ci / Setup	1s
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go-ci / Lint Imports	24s
go-ci / Lint	2m 32s
go-ci / Unit Tests Coverage (ubuntu-latest)	4m 56s
go-ci / Unit Tests Coverage (macos-14)	3m 56s
go-ci / Integration Tests / Integration Tests Fraud	2m 24s
go-ci / Integration Tests / Integration Tests API	3m 15s
go-ci / Integration Tests / Integration Tests Blob	2m 51s
go-ci / Integration Tests / Da Tests Sync	2m 58s
go-ci / Integration Tests / Integration Tests ND	2m 52s
go-ci / Integration Tests / Integration Tests p2p	3m 12s
go-ci / Integration Tests / Integration Tests Sync	2m 36s
go-ci / Integration Tests / Integration Tests Reconstruction	2m 48s
go-ci / Integration Tests / Integration Tests Sync	3m 15s
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