Bump github.com/go-mysql-org/go-mysql to HEAD

The latest commit to the go-mysql driver is a fix for a bug in
how packet timeouts are handled when connecting with TLS:

    go-mysql-org/go-mysql@ff1dab4

As discussed in #2080,
we would like to have this fix ASAP so we're upgrading to that
specific commit on master.

Once this is live (and we've confirmed that nothing else breaks
in production which would necessitate a revert) we'll be free to
add the timeout connect option back in without any workarounds.

go.mod

@@ -34,7 +34,7 @@ require (
 	github.com/estuary/flow v0.4.1-0.20240815183205-bba5ae475f12
 	github.com/estuary/vitess v0.15.10
 	github.com/evanphx/json-patch/v5 v5.9.0
-	github.com/go-mysql-org/go-mysql v1.8.1-0.20240805131754-ccf204bf2b2a
+	github.com/go-mysql-org/go-mysql v1.9.2-0.20241024113125-ff1dab44f445
 	github.com/go-sql-driver/mysql v1.8.1
 	github.com/gogo/protobuf v1.3.2
 	github.com/golang-jwt/jwt/v5 v5.2.1

go.sum

@@ -386,8 +386,8 @@ github.com/go-logr/logr v1.4.2 h1:6pFjapn8bFcIbiKo3XT4j/BhANplGihG6tvd+8rYgrY=
 github.com/go-logr/logr v1.4.2/go.mod h1:9T104GzyrTigFIr8wt5mBrctHMim0Nb2HLGrmQ40KvY=
 github.com/go-logr/stdr v1.2.2 h1:hSWxHoqTgW2S2qGc0LTAI563KZ5YKYRhT3MFKZMbjag=
 github.com/go-logr/stdr v1.2.2/go.mod h1:mMo/vtBO5dYbehREoey6XUKy/eSumjCCveDpRre4VKE=
-github.com/go-mysql-org/go-mysql v1.8.1-0.20240805131754-ccf204bf2b2a h1:VO6kiE9ex1uNaCCgDz/q0EhTueLrr3vmxkjJpU2x6pk=
-github.com/go-mysql-org/go-mysql v1.8.1-0.20240805131754-ccf204bf2b2a/go.mod h1:+SgFgTlqjqOQoMc98n9oyUWEgn2KkOL1VmXDoq2ONOs=
+github.com/go-mysql-org/go-mysql v1.9.2-0.20241024113125-ff1dab44f445 h1:jmp92B2rxILSiPzE38DF/TOAJk/HINhV2NHefXnMLk0=
+github.com/go-mysql-org/go-mysql v1.9.2-0.20241024113125-ff1dab44f445/go.mod h1:+SgFgTlqjqOQoMc98n9oyUWEgn2KkOL1VmXDoq2ONOs=
 github.com/go-playground/assert/v2 v2.0.1/go.mod h1:VDjEfimB/XKnb+ZQfWdccd7VUvScMdVu0Titje2rxJ4=
 github.com/go-playground/locales v0.13.0/go.mod h1:taPMhCMXrRLJO55olJkUXHZBHCxTMfnGwq/HNwmWNS8=
 github.com/go-playground/locales v0.14.1 h1:EWaQ/wswjilfKLTECiXz7Rh+3BjFhfDFKv/oXslEjJA=