enforce cmake-format and cmake-lint, other small packaging changes

[jameslamb]

Part of rapidsai/build-planning#136, which tracks some building/packaging simplifications and conventions we'd like to standardize across RAPIDS.

This proposes the following:

• using cmake-format to autoformat CMake code
• using cmake-lint to enforce style preferences for CMake code
• removing unnecessary use of -DDETECT_CONDA_ENV for wheel builds
• explicitly passing package type to GitHub Actions / gha-tools things handling wheels

Notes for Reviewers

The cmake-format / cmake-lint approach was copied directly from RAFT:

• https://github.com/rapidsai/raft/blob/596d4b7338e62a92652503cd76feaeaa187ad740/.pre-commit-config.yaml#L52
• https://github.com/rapidsai/raft/blob/596d4b7338e62a92652503cd76feaeaa187ad740/cpp/cmake/config.json
• https://github.com/rapidsai/raft/blob/596d4b7338e62a92652503cd76feaeaa187ad740/cpp/scripts/run-cmake-format.sh

Other RAPIDS projects (like cuDF) do this the same way.

All formatting-only changes to CMake in this PR were made automatically by cmake-foramt.

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[jameslamb]

/ok to test

[gforsyth]

Looks good!

[linhu-nv]

seems good :)

[jameslamb]

Thank you both!

[jameslamb]

/merge