add -B bind device option (follows up on #29)

[peppergrayxyz]

This follows up on #29

• works on linux and macos
• dedicated file (ifdefs are in a single spot)
• doesn't break the build if feature is unsupported (use stub and return error if used)
• prints a build message if feature is unsupported

It could be integrated into socksrv.c as well, but #include <netinet/in.h> must be included with _GNU_SOURCE or _DARWIN_C_SOURCE set (depending on the platform) and this doesn't play well with the way the server.h currently works.

References:

• https://github.com/wine-mirror/wine/blob/wine-9.18/server/sock.c#L2151
• https://djangocas.dev/blog/linux/linux-SO_BINDTODEVICE-and-mac-IP_BOUND_IF-to-bind-socket-to-a-network-interface/