uprev PyO3 and add python 3.13 support #341

Job	Run time
lint	52s
test py3.9	52s
test py3.10	42s
test py3.11	55s
test py3.12	45s
test py3.13	55s
build os=linux target=x86_64 int=all ml=auto	2m 10s
build os=linux target=aarch64 int=all ml=auto	2m 34s
build os=linux target=i686 int=all ml=auto	2m 55s
build os=linux target=armv7 int=all ml=auto	2m 40s
build os=linux target=ppc64le int=all ml=auto	2m 16s
build os=linux target=s390x int=all ml=auto	2m 43s
build os=linux target=x86_64 int=all ml=musllinux_1_1	1m 57s
build os=linux target=aarch64 int=all ml=musllinux_1_1	2m 10s
build os=macos target=x86_64 int=all ml=auto	1m 27s
build os=macos target=aarch64 int=all ml=auto	2m 3s
build os=windows target=x86_64 int=all ml=auto	3m 51s
build os=windows target=i686 int=all ml=auto	2m 42s
build os=windows target=aarch64 int=3.11 3.12 3.13 ml=auto	2m 3s
check	3s
inspect-pypi-assets	9s
release	0s
	36m 44s

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