Backport to branch(3.13) : Revisit behavior of multiple mutations for same record in transaction in Consensus Commit

[feeblefakie]

This is an automated request for a manual backport of the following:

• Original PR: Revisit behavior of multiple mutations for same record in transaction in Consensus Commit #2340
• Commit to backport: 3f20979

1. Resolve any conflicts that occur during the cherry-picking process.

git fetch origin &&
git checkout 3.13-pull-2340 &&
git cherry-pick --no-rerere-autoupdate -m1 3f20979c11a660dfb7b021809b727a69a0008bb9

2. Push the changes.
3. Merge this PR after all checks have passed.

Thank you!