fix: remove window reference and improve waitForRemotePeer

[weboko]

Problem

This PR resolves cold start issue and reference window issue.

Solution

For cold start issue - we should start checking new connections as early as possible.

Notes

• Resolves bug: filter subscription is not working on cold start #2190

[weboko]

this improves error handling since Promise.any propagates differently

[github-actions]

size-limit report 📦

Path	Size	Loading time (3g)	Running time (snapdragon)	Total time
Waku node	86.63 KB (+0.28% 🔺)	1.8 s (+0.28% 🔺)	8.5 s (-30.57% 🔽)	10.2 s
Waku Simple Light Node	136.82 KB (-0.1% 🔽)	2.8 s (-0.1% 🔽)	11.5 s (-33.7% 🔽)	14.3 s
ECIES encryption	22.88 KB (0%)	458 ms (0%)	4.3 s (+11.04% 🔺)	4.7 s
Symmetric encryption	22.37 KB (0%)	448 ms (0%)	3.7 s (-14.19% 🔽)	4.2 s
DNS discovery	70.54 KB (-0.1% 🔽)	1.5 s (-0.1% 🔽)	12.5 s (+24.44% 🔺)	13.9 s
Peer Exchange discovery	71.82 KB (-0.05% 🔽)	1.5 s (-0.05% 🔽)	9.2 s (+15.29% 🔺)	10.6 s
Local Peer Cache Discovery	65.17 KB (0%)	1.4 s (0%)	8.4 s (-14.38% 🔽)	9.7 s
Privacy preserving protocols	76.16 KB (+0.24% 🔺)	1.6 s (+0.24% 🔺)	10.8 s (+0.58% 🔺)	12.3 s
Waku Filter	80.98 KB (+0.05% 🔺)	1.7 s (+0.05% 🔺)	13.9 s (+32.49% 🔺)	15.6 s
Waku LightPush	75.72 KB (+0.06% 🔺)	1.6 s (+0.06% 🔺)	9 s (-21.16% 🔽)	10.6 s
History retrieval protocols	77.63 KB (-0.11% 🔽)	1.6 s (-0.11% 🔽)	7.3 s (-18.17% 🔽)	8.9 s
Deterministic Message Hashing	7.39 KB (0%)	148 ms (0%)	1.1 s (-49.04% 🔽)	1.2 s