fix(plugin-pnp): fix NODE_OPTIONS parsing in setupScriptEnvironment

[paul-soporan]

What's the problem this PR addresses?

setupScriptEnvironment uses a simple regexp to detect whether the hook is injected inside NODE_OPTIONS in order to remove it, but that check is flawed:

• Doesn't support --require's shorthand: -r
• Doesn't support double quoted paths (and in turn, doesn't support escaping via backslash).
• Doesn't support bound arguments (--require= / --experimental-loader=)
• Wrongly detects parts of other arguments (--report-dir "/path/to/--require .pnp.cjs")

Closes #3232 (supersedes).

How did you fix it?

Implemented a basic regexp argument parser that can handle arguments composed of both plain and double quoted segments.
Double-quoted segments support escaping via backslash, just like Node's parser allows.
Single-quoted segments aren't allowed by Node.

Note that this isn't about the classic meaning of "parsing CLI arguments" (which util.parseArgs and clipanion do), but about parsing a string into the argv array for further processing.

I added tests for everything.

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